I'm wondering if you're observing the same thing I am. Public discourse is continuing to deteriorate. Negativity, insults and anger are becoming more and
It's understandable, I think, because in general, people are angry and scared.
Angry because things aren't going their way. Angry because things are changing. Angry because things that don't matter to them matter a LOT to other people,
and it doesn't make sense to them. And, scared because if the other people "get their way", there will be change from "the way things were".
Others are angry because they're on "the other side". They're the ones who've been oppressed and marginalized. Attitudes are shifting, acceptance is starting
to come, but it's not coming fast enough because things that matter to them don't matter to a lot of other people, and it doesn't make sense to them.
Scared because if the movement starts to fizzle, things will potentially go back to "the way things were".
Fear and anger are also combined with a societal trend towards individualism. Everyone has rights as an individual. While this is true, I think many of
us have forgotten our responsibilities to ourselves and society.
We need each other in order to survive and thrive. Out of a population of 7 billion, the number of people who could survive on their own with no help from
any other human is incredibly low. Do you run a business? You need customers. Do you eat? You need a farmer.
While we are interdependent, we are not well interconnected. We organize ourselves into communities based on religion, race, orientation, socio-economic
status and more. In general, our communities don't mix, and as a result, our ability to understand each other is limited.
Don't understand the "black lives matter" movement? It's probably because you're not black, don't have black friends, don't live in areas where many black
people live, and don't experience policing the way black people do.
Are you having trouble understanding why indigenous activists would prefer we not refer to Cleveland's baseball team by their name or show their logo in
the media? I'll take a guess then that you're not indigenous, don't have any friends who are, and don't experience discrimination and negative cultural
stereotypes the way indigenous people do.
Perhaps you're annoyed at our government. Fair enough. Most people are. The Liberal party happens to be in power in Ontario and Canada. You can disagree
with their policies and approach, but insulting Liberal leaders and those who voted Liberal simply polarizes the discussion rather than leading to
a productive solution. Building a society where we all work together means learning how to listen, empathize, and if we choose to disagree, to disagree
If we collectively all want to live in peace and harmony, we need to become more integrated into each other's communities. This is not an easy task. It
can be uncomfortable. That discomfort gives us an excuse to avoid taking the steps needed to foster better understanding between people.
We have a right to be angry and scared, but we also have a responsibility to ourselves and to our children and to all those we are interdependent with
to make this world a better place. Mutual respect, understanding and compassion are required to move our society forward. Improving our society means
improving our discourse with each other.
It starts with me, and it starts with you.